Not All Partnerships Deserve Your Attention

What to Pursue, What to Walk Away From

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  • Not all partnerships deserve your attention. What to pursue and what to walk away from

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Not All Partnerships Are Worth Pursuing

This week, we hosted Martin Scholz, founder of CEG Consult, who’s spent decades inside SaaS companies building partner programs that actually deliver.

Martin came to challenge assumptions. And he delivered.

“If your partner doesn’t have time, people, or budget — then it’s not a partnership. It’s a distraction.”

Martin Scholz

His point? We spend too long chasing “maybes.” And it’s costing us.

What partnerships are, and what they’re not

“Partnerships aren’t sales. In sales, you ask: what do you need? In partnerships, you ask: what do we want to achieve?”

Martin Scholz

It’s not about closing. It’s about building something together. Mutual benefit. Shared commitment. Long-term upside.

The four types of partnerships

Martin offered a framework that resonated across the room:

  1. Referral – Fast, light, direct

  2. Resell – Revenue-focused, but requires incentive alignment

  3. Co-sell – Joint GTM and pipeline visibility

  4. Tech/Integration – Complex, slower, often over-hyped

“Tech partnerships are great if you’re ready. But unless they’re tied to pipeline, they become technical debt.”

Martin Scholz

Start with what moves the needle, not what looks good on a slide.

What breaks most partnerships?

“Everyone’s excited. There’s a kickoff. There’s a roadmap. But nothing moves because no one defined success.”

Martin Scholz

The excitement is easy.

Activation is where it falls apart.

Martin pushed for clarity upfront:

Who’s doing what?
By when?
What’s the first visible sign of progress?

The difference between partnership leaders and managers

“Partner managers think in execution. Partner leaders think in models.”

Martin Scholz

This was one of his most important distinctions.
It’s not just about running calls and updating CRM.
It’s about designing a model that compounds value — and walking away if it doesn’t.

Where this lands

This session wasn’t a playbook. It was a filter.

Martin made it clear:

You don’t need more partners.
You need aligned ones.
Not just shared values but shared timelines, shared customers, and a shared reason to act now.

TL;DR – Martin Scholz’s Partnership Operating System:

✅ Qualify by budget, people, and urgency
✅ Define success before the handshake
✅ Start with high-impact motions (referrals, co-sell)
✅ Avoid “maybe” energy
✅ Don’t confuse activity with traction
✅ Filter faster. Say no sooner. Stay focused longer.

We build EVOLVE with the same lens.
Fewer handshakes. More overlap.
Partnerships that move not just look good.


Carlos Monteiro
Founder, EVOLVE Commerce Club

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