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Lessons From Meta & Tik Tok
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Lessons From META & Tik Tok
Some people write books about what they’ve studied.
Dave Morrissey wrote Grow Like Tech about what he lived. You can buy this incredible book on Amazon, today.
Fifteen years inside Meta and TikTok.
Two very different worlds, one built on alignment, the other on speed.
Both obsessed with growth.
Both flawed in their own ways.
This week, Dave joined EVOLVE to share what happens when companies scale faster than their culture, when “fail fast” becomes a slogan without a North Star, and why real leadership is the art of bringing clarity to chaos.
Fail fast, but toward something
We opened with the question:
“Can fail fast become a lazy excuse?”
Dave didn’t hesitate.
“Fail fast only works if you know what you’re failing toward.”
At Meta, he saw structured experimentation, teams knew their mission, their metrics, and what they were chasing.
At TikTok, speed was oxygen but sometimes without a compass.
The difference?
Energy with direction versus chaos at scale.
That set the tone for the hour.
Because moving fast isn’t what builds great companies moving with purpose does The illusion of control
From turntables to tech
Before tech, Dave was in music managing artists, touring with DJs, living in the rhythm of sound.
And it was there, he said, that he learned the three traits that make any team world-class:
Curiosity. Persistence. Generosity.
He told a story about working with a DJ who would spend eight hours sound-checking a venue, sketching out the setup, and later sending feedback back to the promoter just to make the next event better.
That small act of care, of giving back, became his blueprint for leadership.
“The best companies in the world share those same traits — curiosity, persistence, giving. That’s what builds culture.”
That’s also what EVOLVE is about curiosity that leads to progress, persistence that builds careers, and generosity that strengthens community.
Culture isn’t decoration. It’s infrastructure
Dave said something that landed deeply with our members:
“Culture isn’t a byproduct. It’s the system that enables scale.”
At Meta, culture was a framework clear mission, localized autonomy, and a shared sense of purpose.
At TikTok, it was energy without alignment.
The difference, he said, wasn’t resources it was listening.
Meta’s leaders didn’t just push a mission from the top down; they localized it.
TikTok, by contrast, tried exporting Eastern playbooks into Western markets — with friction as the result.
“When you stop listening, you stop scaling.”
Every company says “people first,” but few operate like they mean it.
The illusion of productivity
When the topic shifted to meetings, the room came alive.
Dave laughed, then said:
“Most meetings exist because of insecurity.”
That one sentence stopped everyone.
He explained how layers of middle management often compensate for a lack of clarity — endless calls, alignment sessions, and status updates.
His rule of thumb:
Every meeting should have one thing a desired outcome.
If you can’t define it, don’t schedule it.
If the outcome is simply to connect then make it human, not performative.
That single principle, he said, transformed how he worked at Meta.
“When people are clear, they’re confident. When they’re confused, they hide behind noise.”
It’s not the number of meetings that matter — it’s the clarity they create.
Clarity over comfort
Jeane, one of our members, added a sharp observation: most meetings are survival mechanisms a way for insecure managers to protect themselves.
Dave agreed.
“Insecurity is the biggest hidden cost in business. It’s what drives noise, padding, and wasted time.”
And then he introduced a phrase that resonated with everyone:
Impact over effort.
It’s how he prioritizes everything from decisions to communication.
“What’s the easiest way to create the greatest impact?”
It’s not laziness it’s focus.
And in that Irish way of phrasing things, he said,
“We’re not looking for shortcuts. We’re looking for impact over effort.”
The paradox of speed
When asked about what the East and West could learn from each other, Dave didn’t sugarcoat it.
“The Western model values alignment. The Eastern model values speed.
The real magic happens when you combine both.”
At TikTok, the intensity was electric “volume at all costs,” he said.
At Meta, it was structured ambition.
Both systems work until they don’t.
“If you can marry speed with alignment, you’ll dominate your category.”
And yet, he warned, speed without reflection leads to burnout — and boredom is becoming a lost art.
“There’s value in being bored. That’s where creativity lives.”
Human first, always
By the end, the session came full circle from fail fast to think slow.
“Human centricity is what we’re losing,” Dave said. “When companies scale, they forget they’re made of people.”
He talked about how product names like Claude and Anthropic feel sterile, disconnected from the people they serve.
The more AI advances, the more human we’ll need to be.
“You can’t measure humanity in a quarter. But you’ll feel its absence in every decision.”
Lessons that stayed with us
Here’s what the room walked away with:
Failing fast means nothing if you don’t know where you’re going.
Curiosity, persistence, and generosity build lasting culture.
Insecurity drives noise; clarity drives progress.
Impact matters more than effort.
Human centricity isn’t a value — it’s survival.
Why this matters to EVOLVE
Every EVOLVE session connects to a bigger truth that leadership is changing.
It’s not about control anymore; it’s about clarity.
Not about speed; about direction.
Dave’s reflections reminded us that culture isn’t a side effect of growth — it’s the engine that drives it.
And that’s what EVOLVE stands for:
A collective of leaders who value depth over noise, humanity over hype, and long-term thinking over trends.
We’re not chasing what’s next.
We’re shaping it together.
And that’s exactly what EVOLVE stands for:
to become the most trusted and global house of senior commerce experts the Michelin-level standard for excellence.
The #1 Collective For Senior Commerce Professionals
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